first date

26I know that many guys bother with this issue. The pickup even has a set of rules where you can invite and where they cannot go, and how to choose the right place and so on.

The impression that the place of something depends. On the contrary, all of these rules complicate life. Here you see a pretty girl and think “what to say to her, to meet her, how to motivate, how to take a telephone number where I drive, what I want to talk, and suddenly will not give, she must be a guy…” that’s enough. Quiet!

Throw all this stuff out of my head

Cleanse your mind. Remember, no matter where you go, it really doesn’t matter. If you just met a girl and invite her for a Cup of coffee, go anywhere you liked the cafe. If you go with the girl in the car, can stop at any place that you like. If you plan in advance a date, choose a place depending on your mood and plans for the evening. Continue reading

20First date is the most important step in the beginning of the relationship. However, many men fail to decide to invite a girl.

In most cases this is due to the fact that some young people do not know how and where to ask a girl out on a date, and I’m afraid to make a fool in front of her.

However, the situation is quite easily solved, if requested to develop an action plan.

How to invite

The question how to get a date with a girl, suffers not only shy guys. Fear of failure scares absolutely everyone. Constantly postponing the invitation then, the man only postpones the moment, tormenting himself and a potential friend. If you happened to meet a pretty special that you like, then surely we should invite her on a date. But do not hurry. First of all, you should think of where to get a date with a girl, pick a day and time of the alleged meeting. Immediately setting the rules of the game, your credibility in the eyes of the companion will grow significantly, because many women expect from men of independence and leadership in the relationship. Continue reading

18In order to find a way to invite a guy on a date, the girl for starters you should decide what she expects from this event. Just have a good time or try to end it or continue. The second thing that will affect how to invite a guy out . this is how the girl knows him well, and even then, if he has any pair.

In the case where the favourite guy but a stranger, to start collecting the information about the “object”: what interests, how they spend their time. The more such information, the easier it will then act.

First, so you can see if a guy someone, and if so, how serious it is. Secondly, by learning more about someone, the desire might become stronger, so the gap in General, if you find that the first impression was erroneous. Separately it is necessary to collect information about the circle the object of sighs, and, if the circle is perfect and the girl, then it greatly simplifies the task.

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31In the life of every boy in one day the moment comes when he has to invite a girl on a first date. Naturally this event should be treated responsibly. This is how to make a first impression a second chance isn’t going to happen.

Therefore, if you spoil a first date, you are unlikely to be able to restore and customize. And even if You will be able to fix the situation, be preceded by such a “fix” of the relationship will be long and dreary evidence that you are not “like this”.

In General, it is best not to go to extremes and properly prepare for the first date with a girl. Why do you have thorns, if your asterisk is waiting for you and so, the main thing – not to frighten. So, consider all date from beginning to end. Continue reading

13A date is the perfect way to start relationship and to the first date should be carefully prepared. Because each boy to strive to ensure that this event went well, not boring, because the outcome of a first date depends on the further development of relations. You must provide yourself. How funny, interesting interlocutor, able to interest a girl, referring to her notorious curiosity. Of course, heartbreaking feelings and can not fly to You after the first meeting, but she’ll certainly want at least another time to meet with You to talk to. But back to our main question. The so-called question of the day: “How to ask a girl out on a date? ”

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4“My God! What he looked like! I’m a bit of shame not a failure!”

How often we hear this phrase from the girls, returning from a first date! The passion with which this statement sounds, makes us think that the young man met her, dressed in traditional Zulu suit or little black dress from Chanel. Nothing of the sort, he just put on your favorite sweatpants (known popularly by the code word “sweatpants”). How many times told the world that sweatpants (even if it is the most popular products on commodity markets of the city firms Abibas) – thing is unacceptable on a first date (Yes, in fact, altogether inadmissible away from the gym, barbecue deck chairs and home of the TV). But no! Columns of brave men marching on dates with cute and charming girls, dressed in the uniform of people without taste. Seeing You in such a convenient and family to Your heart sweat pants with stripes, she immediately remembers that he forgot to turn off the washing machine (coffee maker, coffee grinder and juicer) and immediately run away. In fact, such reactions should wait and Romeo, who came in a suit and tie to a meeting, appointed to the bowling club. Before you open the closet, you need to remember: where exactly will happen Your first date, and on this basis to choose your costume Casanova. Continue reading

8What do you associate with the word "date"? I knew with flowers and a restaurant. The world is full of stereotypes. But if the young man has no money at a restaurant, so he’s now on a date not to go? Nonsense! You can arrange a free appointment, and instead of money we will pay for creative ideas.

The most popular and low-cost view date – walk. However, almost all young men make a big mistake – you walk with a girl without a purpose. Believe me, as soon as the purpose, the date immediately transformed from a boring walk in the Park in an exciting and memorable meeting.

So, a few scenarios free Dating. But just say, completely free of charge will not work: to check on a couple of cups of coffee is always need to be ready. Continue reading

7Don’t invite a girl home, if you don’t know her for a long time. First, the unfamiliar girl can be as a thief and gunner. And well even if what she’s going for a good night’s sleep – will not put you to sleep forever.

Secondly, there is, alas, such a profession as «submit an application that you raped me, if you don’t pay off!» You need to visit the police, the investigation and the area or hitting from the bandits? Even if you’re cool, don’t be so troublesome, at least to himself by his own… with your hands. Take out, take the hedgehog out of his pants!

If you claim that is not married and very lonely, but actually it is not so — to lead home the girls are strictly prohibited. You will not be able to hide all traces of inhabitation women in your house, don’t even try. A bunch of Souvenirs, pillows, curtains, placed furniture, etc. – check for yourself, look at your married friend and single – they look very different.

A woman from childhood accustomed to notice the smallest details, halftones, you can’t beat. Moreover, even if the miracle happens and my friend will not overlook the fact that you so carefully hid — must be in the same order to put all the things, jars and bottles back. Continue reading

34You met a charming beauty, boy, you talked, you left your phone number. And now you’re calling her a few days later, invited to a coffee shop or in a movie, and she begins to blow, to behave strangely, in General, not like you would an acquaintance. And you begin to wrestle – what did I do wrong? This article will help you understand what to do in such situations or how to avoid them.

The article is mainly addressed to guys who are interested in or engage in fun activities, like picking up girls (pickup). And as the field of communication with the opposite sex has always been important, and now to the seduction of the increased interest, which confirms the emergence of many schools of learning seduction, films about the pickups, this article may be useful for both the seducers and the guys who just want to find a soul mate.

This article describes how to invite a girl on a first date on the phone.

Just make a reservation. if you normally interested in the introduction, you talked to some common themes, she is interested in you as in the person and as a man (sexually interested), then no problems should arise, you just call and say. hi, this is Sergey (for example), we met there, come on tomorrow night meet me at a certain place. Continue reading

23Learn how to go on a first date in different countries.

German women themselves invite on a date

For German girls to invite a guy on a date is a common occurrence. In addition, they are completely devoid of prejudices, so a first date often ends in bed.

The Germans appointed a first date in a pub, cafe or restaurant. Each pays for itself. Second date is also a tradition. If a girl really liked, German, likely to invite her on Saturday to the movies.

The British found among weeks

On a first date British girls during the week, since the weekend they have taken hold in the company of friends.

The first meeting traditionally takes place in the pub, the guy can pay for the girl, though she’s unlikely to be much to fork out. But more often the couple pays the bill in half.

In Britain it is accepted to escort the girl home, but sex on the first date is excluded. Continue reading